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An Alzheimer's Patient's Gift to My Sons

September 24, 2013 Sarah Smiley
Alzheimer's Patient

At the end of the line was Frank, a small man permanently bent forward at his waist. He had wispy grey hairs combed over his bald, sun-spotted head. He stopped and touched my hand. “Will you have dinner with us?” he said quietly. “There’s room at our table.” Anita — the taller, straighter woman beside Frank, who was clutching his elbow for support — smiled at me and said, “We’ll do some sorting. Would you like that? We can sort things together.”

Before I could say anything, Owen shrugged his shoulders and said, “Sure, what’s for dinner?”

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In Motherhood Tags health, parenting, motherhood, Dinner with the Smileys

Depression Doesn't Play Favorites

September 19, 2013 Sarah Smiley
Depression

This is a horrible flaw in the industry’s view of mental health. When someone is having a heart attack, they don’t call around first to see who their insurance will let them see. No, they get to the emergency room and sort it out later. Likewise, when someone is suffering from depression, they usually don’t have the clarity to wade through jargon and complicated phone trees to figure out which counselor they can see. If we’re lucky, these people pick up the phone, call a counselor and say, “I need to talk to someone.”

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In Depression Tags depression

My Husband Rescues Lawn-Mowing Shoes

August 19, 2013 Sarah Smiley

When Dustin was on deployment last year, I threw out every pair of “lawn-mowing” shoes I could find in the basement. I took a whole sack to Goodwill and never felt a moment of remorse — until last week. Dustin wanted to work in the yard. He needed shoes. He also wanted to wear flip flops to the lake, and as it turns out, I threw away all of those, too.

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In Marriage Tags marriage, husband, things that annoy me

Rite of Passage: The Last Year of Little League

July 20, 2013 Sarah Smiley
Little League baseball is a rite of passage

By the second year of Little League, Ford had grown an inch or two, but he was still the smallest on the team. Our league keeps players together and with the same coach for all four years, so Ford’s teammates — the older ones, especially — were like mentors for him. The experience of Little League was as much about the game as it was time in the dugout.

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In Baseball, Motherhood Tags baseball, little league, childhood, motherhood, Ford

Changing Gender Roles Mean New Sacrifices for Military Fathers

June 19, 2013 Sarah Smiley
Military fathers sacrificing more as gender roles change

The military is the last American institution to follow societal trends. If my husband was at sea when I went into labor, he would stay there. I fretted over this until the day I went to the hospital and was positive my husband would be with me. He left two weeks later and missed most of our son’s first year, but at least I didn’t need a telegram to tell him he had a son named Ford.

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In Military, Motherhood, Politics Tags fatherhood, parenting, politics, social issues, military
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Syndicated newspaper columnist Sarah Smiley is the author of Dinner With the Smileys (Hyperion, 2013) and Got Here as Soon as I Could (DownEast, 2016). Described as an "Erma Bombeck" by Publishers Weekly, Sarah is best known for her sometimes funny, always endearing tales of raising three boys. She and her family live in Maine. 

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